𝐓𝐨𝐩 𝟏𝟎 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤- 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐢𝐠 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞.
1)Forget things, he says. One day, even all the people you love or hate won't be in your life or you in theirs.
2)Two people under the same roof bearing the same loss, are affected differently.
3)Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. Loss is unavoidable. Grief isn't. Death is certain. And life, well, life isn't certain. Its uncertainty, unpredictability, and even irrationality make it what it is: worthwhile, a blessing.
4)Whatever the cause of your grief, it's temporary and will not be there forever.
5)The root of our struggles is the quest for permanence, to somehow vainly ensure that any good in our lives must remain as is.
6)Whenever you are down or disturbed or feel lost or low, just touch your heart and tell yourself that this time will pass.
When you are over the moon or think you have the best life, tap your heart again and remind yourself that this time won't last.
7)If we don't know how to keep ourselves happy, no one else can ever do that for us.
8)The three core virtues that define a person's spiritual attitude
Patience
Selflessness
Determination
9)Two ways to show that we have realized our mistake: first, by not repeating it, and second, by offering a sincere apology.
10)We will not be honored for what we could have done but for what we did.